For a relationship to stay healthy and to grow stronger as days go by, many such relationships require to be maintained and be built up. However it could be stressful, heartbreaking and depressing when breakups occur in many such situations. You may have to do a soul searching effort before you make a decision to Get Back With Your Ex again and to realize if you may be truly happy and in love with each other if you get together again. You need to sit back and recall all the good times and not so good times you had in each others company. Some relationships are not worth to be continued at all. You need to recall and consider the time you spent with your ex-partner, whether more time was spent happily with each other or you whiled away precious time over quarreling one another. It is very difficult to move along with people who keep fighting always and it is better to do away with such people. One cannot have a healthy relationship with a person who is both physically and verbally abusive. You sure will be better off to do away with a mentally unstable person.