The difference between me and you is that you remember more things than me (so me stopping off for a treat for you is unlikely b/c I forget)  You could call and ask me to and you know I would do it.  I said I would get you the milky ways but you said no and yet you are still mad about that.  I’m confused. I wanted to look at an ice making machine for the fridge but you totally ignored me. You “don’t mind” if I get out (1 ½ hours Mondays and 1 hour Tuesdays and once in awhile a few hours to socialize (maybe once a month) on my own.  That is not that much time out!